"You only pretend ... that you listen. ... same as you've done with all the men from your life ... till one day that all becomes so obvious and ridiculous that you had to stop it." by the well known romanian author Adrian Dumitru
"You only pretend ... that you listen. ... same as you've done with all the men from your life ... till one day that all becomes so obvious and ridiculous that you had to stop it." by the well known romanian author Adrian Dumitru
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I've once wrote a book ... called "PRETENDING: ... a way of wasting our lives" ... and it was like an abstract poem ... defining my own life.
Somehow ... i had to do it ... as sort of a therapy for my soul.
Today ... i smile seeing people pretending.
I even laugh ... and i really don't hide myself.
Actually ... i try to not pretend anymore in front of .... similar mistakes which i had done into the past.
And ... one of the biggest mistakes we do in life is ... to pretend that we listen.
We also do that ... even in close relationships... or even ... in love stories.
I've done the same.
Many, many times.
That is probably why i had decided to write that book.
But i also saw my ex partners .... pretending.
On ... and on ... and on.
And .... I felt .... betrayed.
I've realised ... i am not ... special.
I felt that fake energy beyond the act of pretending ... and ... hated it ...
I had moments ... when i had started to see that all is ... ridiculous.
... in continuous form.
So ... i've just asked myself ... what the hell am i doing in front of such a partner?!
Why am i so stupid to stay into the illusion?!
Why am i so stupid to accept the act of pretending ... even it i know the real truth?!
But ... i was maybe too silly in those times.
Today ... as i had said it ... i smile or even laugh when i realise those fake energies which try to induce me the illusion .... that all is actually perfect.
And ... i just try ... to get out of that story.
Sometimes temporary ... and sometimes ... forever.
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